Planning a Caring Christmas

As people rush about buying things and wrapping their gifts or choosing gift cards or heaven forbid Cash I suppose they are seeking that wonderful feeling that we have when we can give something to a loved one that makes them smile, and feel loved, and feel understood, and feel cared about.

I love that feeling – and make it a practice all year long to be looking for some way to affirm others, to understand who they are, and to do what I can to contribute to them in a way that touches the spirit as it meets physical needs.

Sometimes I really fail at this and let my ego run the little program of blaming, labeling, condemning, and judging others. I find I fail most often with those who are closest to me – who love me so much that I know they will not turn away, in spite of the abuse.

I am engaged in the process of letting go of these material attachments so that the ego state will be noticed and stop thinking we are separate or different, or better, or worse than someone else. If I can notice the thoughts of separation and smile – I can return to the Love Center that is really me – that I am a part of – that brings joy and opportunity to spread the Love Energy to everyone I meet. This is a moment by moment process that teaches Presence in the moment – which is where we all live.

Ron and I are hosting a family gathering in the middle of December and have requested that our guests not bring us a gift and not expect a gift from us, but instead for each couple who is able to do so, bring a maximum cash gift of $25.00. We have selected the Mid-Valley Women's Crisis Service to receive a donation of the cash we receive.

My Son called this morning to say he and his wife have chosen the Humane Society to receive their donations – and reported that other family members have joined the cause to make this Christmas an example of Caring for Each Other. Instead of spending our time together opening gifts – we will spend our time together playing games – singing songs we love – sharing finger foods – and our heart felt Love for one another – no matter how different we think, no matter how different our life styles, and Celebrating the fact that in this Wonderful Life – We are all One – in the Spirit of Love.

Wishing you all a Joyous Christmas Season!