Saturday, October 17, 2009

68 is Great

I had a great birthday celebration over breakfast with family and friends. This is well described with a great picture on Cynthia & Mike's blog. Sometimes the feeling of gratitude and happiness gets so big it is impossible to contain. That is how I feel when I think of all of you – who add so much joy to life. Thank You for being here!

I love the Passion Flowers. They remind me of my passion for life.
The way we perceive the events of our day ultimately defines how we feel about our experiences. In the last few years it has been easier to receive each day's gifts with a sense of abundance and gratitude. As I see it – whenever I meet someone new, I pause and look closely for the gift or the lesson they bring. When a beautiful bird fly's over my head, I thank it for the blessing. While I rake the abundance of leaves that fall daily I marvel at their unique colors and size and the wonder of the changing seasons.

I went for a walk at the park and a beautiful Red Irish Setter broke loose from its owner and came running toward me as fast as she could come. I was delighted – her owner was embarrassed and worried that she would jump up on me and knock me down! I greeted the dog with my hand out and said "Sit" and she did! She plunked herself down right at my feet and looked up at me for approval. I told her she was a "good girl" and gave her a big hug just as her owner arrived. The dog is Lilly and her owner is Patricia. We met there under my sacred Grandfather Oak Tree. It seems that Lilly thought I had something in my hand for her. In fact I was holding a very special obsidian Arrowhead that has become meditation medicine that I use sometimes. I opened my hand and showed my brand new acquaintance, Patricia, as we stood under the Ancient Oak. She immediately said "Oh, let me hold it? Let me feel it's energy. Oh, I feel your energy!" Patricia shared with me that she always stops under the "grandfather oak" to ask him for strength, since she has a weak back. She said she used to have a white obsidian Arrowhead which is very sacred – but it has left her now. We talked about our mutual relationship to Native
American Spiritual Traditions – work with Shaman – vision quest and ceremony. We had passed each other in the park many times – but today we knew each other. What a gift!

I told Patricia that my meditation walk that day was in honor of my mother who passed on that date many years ago. She told me of her daily meditation walk with two sons that she had lost – and of her gratitude for her nature walks during which she always feels their presence. I received another priceless gift today – a gift of understanding and love.

Marilyn gave me a bicycle that was too tall so I traded it for a smaller mountain bike and I am delighted to say I have been for my first ride and survived. It isn't going to be so bad being 68! I have lots of new things to do and learn. Thanks Marilyn for the bike – and thanks to you all for remembering me! Love you all!

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Birthdays

My birthday is almost here again this year. Tomorrow my wonderful family and friends join Ron & I for breakfast at Annette's. For those of you who remember – Annette's used to be the old "West Salem CafĂ©" on Wallace Road. When the new shopping center came it had to move along with the West Salem Cleaners and a few others. It is a lovely center now with Walgreen's and lots of special stores and fast foods. I like it. Annette's moved to Edgewater where the fancy "Alesandro's" used to be.

For years I dreaded my birthday and even started getting moody when October rolled around. When I was a child on an Idaho Potato Farm – Harvest Time was October and there were no celebrations – just hard work and lots of stress!

Then one day soon after I married Ron – I noticed my anger rising with October and wondered out loud about it. Family never knows how to celebrate birthday for their mom when they are young. I was lucky to get a paper bag with a gift in it! So I made a life changing decision! I decided I would take care of celebrating MY birthday. I told the kids and Ron that I was going to have a big party on my birthday and they were invited! I told the kids I was making a chocolate cake for my "little girl inside" and if they wanted they could help. They were excited and helped and we had a great party. We have had great parties ever since!

Usually we spend my birthday on the Oregon Beach which is my favorite fall place, but with Ron recovering from surgery and the rigors of learning how to manage a diabetic diet it was not a good plan this year. Maybe next year!

Anyway – I get a free year! That is because for the last year I have believed I was 68. Now that I come to my birthday – October 11 – born 1941 minus 2009 I am delighted to announce I am 68 AGAIN! Wahoo! I will really have a fun year now.
My plans include joining the new Kroc center and taking advantage of the exercise classes and water aerobics and anything else that appeals to my fancy. I am hoping that Mike will join me.

Ron has his first upholstery job scheduled as planned for October 13th – when both Jack and Eli will pick up a couch and deliver it to Ron's shop for him. What a wonderful, helpful family we have.

Just Look at the Wonderful Food he eats all the time now!
Ron sends his gratitude to all of you who have been concerned. He is doing well. It will take a while to manage the balance of the sugars but he has made wonderful progress. His implant is working and doesn't seem to annoy him so much anymore with its little surges of electricity. We intend to continue living and loving life every day for as long as it lasts – and being grateful for every moment.

Love to all of you!